A Little Bit About Me
Growing up as a kid I saw the Christian faith as something that I had to do. It wasn't really something that I believed in or followed. I didn't read the Bible or pray that often. I would pray when I was in trouble or needed something. It was a religion as I got older, that blamed women for the down fall of men. It was a woman who listened to Satan and forced her husband to eat from the Tree of Knowledge. Which in turn got them both kicked out of paradise. It was also a religion of confusion, with the concept of the Holy Trinity.
When I went to college I was able to research for myself different religions. I immersed myslef in a few but never felt right in any of them. I felt like my life had no purpose or meaning. But I finally found purpose when I found Islam. It was the first religion that was plain and simple to me. I felt like I had finally found myself.
I'm very new to Islam. I embraced Islam on January 27,2012.I am a very easy person to get along with. I would consider myself to be a very likable and lovable person. I try my best to be a good friend, as well as a good person. I smile a lot. I try my best to be happy and enjoy life, because you never know when your time will come. It is so easy to lose track of those things that are most important to you. So I try my best to keep things in perspective. It’s also easy to get caught up in all the bad in the world.
I try to focus on the good in all things. Some might feel I turn a blind eye to all the problems of the world, but I don't. I'm well aware that we do not live in a perfect world. But everyone can do their part in trying to make things better, even if it’s just giving a friendly smile to someone as you pass them by.
Im not a perfect Muslimah. I still have a lot to learn. Im taking baby steps. Right now Im learning the basics. I experiences my first Ramadan and it was awesome.
But one of the major changes that I made when I became muslim was to wear hijab full time. I felt that it was the most important for me. I wanted to be obedient to Allah when so many muslim women are not. I didnt want to be seen as a distraction to men. How many accidents have been cause because a woman who was dressed inappropriately. It was the hardest thing that I did, but also the most rewarding.
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What I Am Looking For
Inshallah this is what I’m looking for in a Husband:
Attributes (in no order):
***One who fears ALLAH***,Someone who is kind, Gentle, Patient, Understanding, Likes to have Fun, Sense of Humor, Likes Kids, Family-oriented, Likes to go out (mall, movies…not bar or club), Willing to communicate, Willing to help around the house and with children, Loving, Likes to cuddle, Someone who will teach me new things, Will accept me for who I am, but one who push me to become a better person, Willing to make changes, Financially stable, Good job, Easy going, Willing to compromise, Has a hobby, Willing to share
These are a few things that Im looking for but I know that here isn't a perfect guy out there. I know that there are going to be things that we both need to work on. So inshallah we can help eachother get into Jannah.
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